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You don't have to face this alone.

LBD creates an extraordinary caregiving burden — affecting cognition, movement, behavior, and sleep all at once. LBDRC exists to walk alongside every person and family navigating this disease, with free guidance, support groups, and local resources.

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Speak to someone who has been there. Our helpline consists of former caregivers who understand LBD firsthand.

— Understanding LBD Caregiving

What makes LBD caregiving uniquely challenging

LBD affects every aspect of a person. The combination of cognitive, motor, and behavioral symptoms creates a highly demanding set of challenges — and caregiver burden is extraordinarily high. As one caregiver noted: “None of it is easy. None of it makes sense.”

The insights below come directly from caregivers and clinicians who know LBD deeply. They won’t make it easy — but they can help.

Emotions and love make a big difference

People with LBD feel your energy and are extremely sensitive to emotions. If you're frustrated, they will feel it. Patience, quiet, and routine work best.

Speak slowly — and wait

Speak caringly and slowly. Wait about 20 seconds for a reply. Respond to repeated questions as if it's the first time you've heard them.

Keep environments calm and small

Limit activities and visitors. People with LBD are often overwhelmed by too much stimulation, noise, or too many people. Keep groups small and conversations focused.

Cherish moments of connection

Try your best to create special moments for both of you. Though this disease is difficult, moments of connection you share would not have been possible otherwise.

“Though caregiving is some of the most difficult and demanding work that we will ever do — and demands great patience and strength of character — it is also a role for the courageous and the optimistic. Stay strong, celebrate each tiny victory, laugh when you can and cry when you must.”

— Tom & Karen Brenner, authors of You Say Goodbye and We Say Hello

💡 Emotional needs of people with LBD

Distress often arises when one of these core needs is threatened — per Angela Lunde, Mayo Clinic:

— Communication

Communicating with someone who has LBD

Effective communication reduces distress for both the person with LBD and their caregiver. These evidence-based techniques from the Mayo Clinic can make a real difference day to day.

🕐 Respond as if it's the first time

Fine-tune your communication. When someone asks the same question repeatedly, respond with the same patience and care as if you're hearing it for the very first time. Validate, don't correct.

🌿 Use positive language

Frame things positively. Instead of "you can't go out," try "Let's get ready for our walk at 3 o'clock." Connect activities to familiar routines they enjoy.

🙋 One person, one conversation

Only one person should speak at a time. Wait for a response — up to 20 seconds — before speaking again. Crowded conversations are overwhelming for people with LBD.

💛 Validate the emotion, not the belief

If someone believes something that isn't true — like a spouse is having an affair — don't argue the facts. Acknowledge the feeling: "I'm sorry you feel that way. I love you."

🎛️ Give choices, not orders

Avoid appearing over-controlling. Offer limited, simple choices to preserve their sense of autonomy. "Would you like tea or water?" rather than deciding for them.

🎵 Use music and sensory calm

Play soothing music if they enjoy it. Minimize background noise during conversations. A calm environment significantly reduces anxiety and agitation in people with LBD.

— Support Groups

You'll find your people here

We’ve been offering support groups in the New York metro area since 2008. Today we offer national and international groups for both people living with LBD and caregivers at every stage — all via Zoom, all free.

🌐 National

LBD Crew

For people living with LBD

Schedule 1st & 3rd Monday · 11:00am - 12:00pm Eastern
Email norma@lbdrc.org to receive the link →
🗽 New York/New Jersey/Connecticut

Tri-State Group

For LBD caregivers in New York/New Jersey/Connecticut

Format 2nd & 4th Wednesday · 11:30am - 1:00pm Eastern
Email norma@lbdrc.org to receive the link →
🌐 National

At This Moment (ATM)

For LBD caregivers — focused on feelings & needs in the present moment

Format 1st & 3rd Wednesday · 12:00 - 1:00pm Eastern
Email norma@lbdrc.org to receive the link →
🌐 National

Early Onset

For people under 65, newly diagnosed, or experiencing symptoms without a diagnosis

Format 2nd & 4th Wednesday · 3:00 - 4:00pm Eastern
Email norma@lbdrc.org to receive the link →
🌐 National

Evening Group

For LBD caregivers — evenings to accommodate working caregivers

Schedule 2nd & 4th Monday · 7:00–8:00 PM Eastern
Email norma@lbdrc.org to receive the link →
🌐 National

Accepting the Journey

For later-stage LBD caregivers

Schedule 1st & 3rd Friday · 4:00–5:00 PM Eastern
Email norma@lbdrc.org to receive the link →
🌍 International

International Group

For LBD caregivers worldwide — launched 2025

Format 1st & 3rd Monday · 9:30 - 10:30am Eastern
Email norma@lbdrc.org to receive the link →
🕊️ After the Journey

After the Journey

For those who have lost a loved one to LBD

Format 2nd & 4th Friday · 4:00 - 5:00pm Eastern
Email norma@lbdrc.org to receive the link →
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Not sure which group is right for you?

Email us and we'll help you find the best fit. All groups are free and open to everyone.

✉️ Email norma@lbdrc.org

— Local Resources

Find support in your state

LBDRC has compiled comprehensive, state-specific directories of home care aides, adult day programs, hospice, support groups, eldercare consultants, and much more.

For information on other states, please call our Helpline at 516-218-2026 or email us at norma@lbdrc.org and we will be happy to help you with resources in your State.

— Caregiver Tip Sheets

Guides for every caregiving challenge

These resources from the Alzheimer’s Disease Education & Referral Center at NIH cover the most common challenges caregivers face with LBD.

— We're Here to Help

Got Questions? Our helpline is one call away.

Whether you’re newly diagnosed, a caregiver searching for answers, or a healthcare professional seeking guidance — our live helpline connects you with knowledgeable LBD specialists. Free, always.